Christians often claim that their condemnation of homosexuality is an act of “loving the sinner, but hating the sin.” Such a statement necessarily assumes, however, that the person judging the “sin” is somehow qualified to make such a distinction to begin with. That separating the action from the actor first requires condemning both is overlooked by such Christians who, prohibited from throwing stones at the one, cast them instead with righteous abandon at the other. While this bifurcated standard protects people from physical injury, it can produce deep wounds psychologically and emotionally. It also allows those who accept the standard to, however unintentionally, assume a position of moral righteousness – at least with regards to sexual morality - which allows them to impose judgement on others while immunizing themselves from having to take any responsibility for the fruit of their claims, by passing all personal responsibility for making such judgements to...